John Stuart Mill (Essay on Liberty)


‘The liberty of the individual must be thus far limited; he must not make himself a nuisance to other people.’

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Officially on the Move


Well, leave it to Em to do things in classic Emily style. If I am honest, she had me a little concerned again as she had not progressed in any of her skills for quite a long time...and then...this week happened. In one week she has started talking, playing games and officially started walking.

What? Yep, until Tuesday, she knew one word, "Daddy" (which applies to anything and everything). Two days later, she now says, "Uh-Oh", "Go", and "Hi" as well. She has started to instigate playing games like peek-a-boo and, well, anything that gets a reaction from people. As far as her walking, people have been telling me for a long time that she is walking, but I haven't given her credit because in my mind, until she decides to venture out with no one around and actually use it as a tool for life, I consider it 'almost there'. SO, Tuesday she started just trying to get from one place to another and yesterday she started to just walk until she lost her balance. She is still doing it today! Yipee!

I caught some of it on video so I made a short one...her talking, her walking, showing off crayon face, and saying "hi" as my "bye".


We also went to the High-Risk Infant Follow-Up Clinic at Loma Linda and since she is finally one year old, there are many new things we can add to her diet to try to get her gaining weight and growing at a faster rate. First, we have switched from formula to PediaSure (toddler shakes). I really didn't know it could get more expensive than formula, but we just doubled our food expenses for her. Oh well, what are you going to do?

Secondly, there is a powder that can be added to her food that has no taste but adds 50 calories per tablespoon, but, since it too is very expensive so we are going to wait to see if we really need it or if the pediasure does the trick.

If you would like to pray for us, we have put an appeal in to our insurance to cover these two (as they rejected our original request) and we will find out in about two weeks what they say. Because Emily's lack of weight gain is medically described as a "Failure to Thrive" and she has been medically prescribed these 'over the counter' remedies, we have a one-in-a-million shot that the insurance will help us cover the cost. God has always provided for what we need so I am not worried, I am just in a moment where I am tired of the constant craziness that is Emily. Thanks for your prayers! Wait, pause, look above to see how God answers our prayers daily!! I am no longer in that moment...what a great God we serve!  My baby girl is walking...a year before they said to expect it from her!  God Bless!!

Monday, March 07, 2011

First Weekend Off

Well, for the next two months, M has weekends off. He hasn't had weekends off in almost three years. So what did we do with our first weekend? Well, we started by hanging out with family...

K and her auntie...
cousins...
our youngest nephew thinks it is funny to bite the spoon and not let go.

We also went to a friend's house to pick oranges...



...this is my favorite, but maybe it's just cause I'm the mom. :)


K puts them in the bag...look at that view!  Beautiful!!

Em discovers the bag...

Em sabotages the bag...

And gets as many out...

Before K comes back to 'fix' the mess Em has made...honestly, this is how their relationship works. If I could tell you how they function in orange grove terms, this would be it. :)


And of course, Em had to put everything in her mouth...including a leaf.

What else did we do? We went to church as a family!!! Ahhhh, that was nice. I also went to the first baby shower I have been able to attend since K was born. Why? They are always on weekends, never allow kids and always either at 11am (M still asleep) or 3pm (M about to go to work). So, I haven't been able to attend. But honestly, it just felt weird...I kept looking around for my kids wondering who was getting into what trouble, then panicking cause they weren't there, then realizing I needed to just relax because Daddy had them. :)

This morning I let K have her first shot at finger painting. This may seem normal to most people but since she is texture-phobic, I was honestly a little nervous. I didn't want her to panic and never want to try it again. BUT, I was totally wrong. She was great! She LOVED it!

Check out the tongue...always!

She still made faces of disgust though...

It didn't take long for her to figure out how fun it could be and she dove in with both hands and it all turned brown.  Showing me her hands.

And her arms.

Cleaning up. I know she did great for her, but I still crack up that there isn't a speck of paint anywhere on her or the table or the floor, except her hands, arms and the paper. She didn't completely abandon her OCD. She's still K, just venturing out to try new things...cautiously. :)

Showing you her painting.

Have a great day!! God Bless!